Of all the bad effects because of masturbation, it boils down to one thing: Our Marriage. Is it going to affect my marriage in a bad way so I wont be able to perform. Will she leave me because I wont be able to satisfy her? What if I can’t perform well? These thinking from us and esp from society creates a tremendous pressure on us that makes us say “I do not want to marry”. We simply reject the thought of getting married because we could see the unknown humiliation if the marriage fails. People will know that I could not perform and it will bring shame and disgrace to me and my family. These things are tremendous in society like Pakistan and India where everything is based on honor and respect.
The truth is you should not be feareful of marrige, even if you have done excessive masturbation in the past. I know it is really really hard to come over it but when you find a true love or match, you can easily overcome this. [This topic will be completed later]
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