Discussion of Impotence
What is impotence?
Impotence is the inability to erect Penis. This is what I would call real Impotence. However impotence is also referred to the inability to maintain erection hard enough and long enough to satisfy your partner sexually. This can be called as a mild form of impotence. You just can not have a healthy intercourse with your partner
Does Masturbation causes Impotence?Masturbation does cause premature ejaculation but what about impotence? Can it cause impotence too? In premature ejaculation your penis get small in size (esp contracts or shrinks near the base [becomes thin near the base and thick near the top]). It also can not produce erection hard enough as it would have produced if you did not have the premature ejaculation problem. The stiffness in the penis decreases a great deal. In the final stages of premature ejaculation problem all these all these signs can be observed easily. Masturbation does pushes you toward impotence if it does not make you impotent completely. In fact it makes you almost impotent and you have to find some way to come out of it, like masturbation exercise and special exercise with partner to come over it. The person who has this problem thinks as if he is impotent ( he might not be aware of what impotence is but he is definitely aware that he can not have intercourse with a woman and he does not have the courage to go for it because he thinks it will give him shame and dishonor). The person having premature ejaculation problem has the following thinking's:
I have been having the premature ejaculation problem for the last 15 years. And my thinking were exactly the same as i mentioned above [ I still believe these thinking are right]. Although
Although there are techniques to overcome these problems. Like you can get slow control over you ejaculation problem by stopping yourself just before ejaculation. Once you are able to do that at a point, you can push that point farther toward orgasm and eventually you can get control over it. However it would not be the same as a health man as he already has control over it.
Would you enjoy sex same way as you would have if you did not have the premature ejaculation problem?
My answer to this question would be 'No'. Since you ejaculate too quickly in premature ejaculation, you always have this in your mind that I shall not ejaculate even though you are having sex. For example you are touching the butt of your woman and feeling great but at the same time you are thinking that you might ejaculate. This greatly reduces the joy of having sex. Again you have to do 'the stop and start' technique to avoid rapid ejaculation which is a hindrance in the regular flow of sex. Your sensitivity of enjoying a woman's body can also decrease. In other words the experience would be totally different if you did not have the premature ejaculation problem.